How many times have we asked ourselves: Is that the way I should treat someone else? Is that the way someone else should treat me? Despite our many differences, we share these everyday questions; this is the common "stuff" of human living and interacting. Now ask yourself, was I able to get beyond my own interests to make the support group stronger?
A support group is a gathering of people who share a common concern or interest.
Support groups bring together people facing similar issues, Members of support groups often share experiences and advice. It can be helpful just getting to exchange ideas with other people who are in the same boat.
In a support group, you'll find people with problems similar to yours. Members of a support group typically share their personal experiences and offer one another emotional comfort and moral support. They may also offer practical advice and tips to help you cope with your situation. Sometimes one approach will be more appropriate than another. The method you prefer may not suit everyone. Hopefully, by considering the alternatives, you will be able to make decisions that are right for you. If you take time to consider the various possibilities, you are more likely to make a decision you believe is ethically correct.
If the support group makes you uncomfortable or you don't find it useful, try another one. Remember that even a support group you like can change over time as participants come and go. Periodically evaluate the support group to make sure it continues to meet your needs.
Also be aware that you may be at a different stage of coping or acceptance than are others in the support group. Or they may have a different attitude about their situation. While such a mix can provide rich experiences, it may also be unhelpful or even harmful. For instance, some in the group may be pessimistic about the future, while you're looking for hope and optimism. Don't feel obligated to keep attending the group need if a conflict or group dynamic is upsetting —just sit out for a while.
Not all members of support group are a good match for you. Some may be driven by the interests of one or two members. Look for these red flags that may signal a problem with a support group: Be aware of the possibility that people may not be who they say they are, or may be trying to market a plan. So at first, you may benefit from simply listening. Over time, though, contributing your own ideas and experiences can help you get more out of a support group.
Take care and all the best!
Good luck and safe trading!
Asoka Samarakone