you have an obligation to share it with others!'
Take the time to learn from others' mistakes before they become yours. Despite our many differences, we share these everyday questions; this is the common "stuff" of human living and interacting.
One of the foremost values is a sense of a realization that very little in life can be achieved alone, and without support and comfort from others. It is always a wise idea to seek the counsel of others around you who may have more a wider array of experiences and who may be better able to be impartial about the issue.
You cannot push the market forward by staying safe and comfortable. You cannot make great advances by holding tightly to the tired excuses and outdated assumptions.
The problems will only get bigger if you run from them or hide from them. The way to truly make a problem go away is to work through it. Unfortunately, the shape of the stock market is such that it is no longer satisfactory to rely on a set of 'virtuous habits'. Instead, people need to be able to exercise sophisticated judgment and then justify their decisions by appeal to a set of well-developed reasons. Many people feel ill-equipped to tackle the complex issues that they now have to confront on an almost daily basis. Positive thinking doesn't mean that you keep your head in the sand and ignore less pleasant situations. Positive thinking just means that you approach the unpleasantness in a more positive and productive way. You think the best is going to happen, not the worst. A group can help you cope better and feel less isolated as you make connections with others facing similar challenges. Create an opportunity for as many people as possible to participate in this process. Only the active participation of all members will ensure a truly value-based, shared culture. Worries are worthless, so don’t bother with them. Resentment over a difficult situation actually makes that situation worse, so remind yourself there’s no point in it.
Stop fighting against what you must do and allow your best efforts to flow. Certainly stock market can be painful and inconvenient, frustrating and disappointing. Still, it is absolutely worth all the trouble and more. Focus on the long-term value of each situation. The best opportunities are often hidden in plain sight behind the time required for their fulfillment.
Asoka Samarakone