How manage ur monthly income...

share your valuable  thoughts... short term ,mid term and long term..

short term =find a cheap girl friend
mid term= don't get married
long term= don't have kids

avoid girl friends
avoid booz
avoid stock market and sleep peacefully at night and save money
avoid getting married
 overall avoid everything that makes you lose money. 

Jiggysaurus wrote:short term =find a cheap girl friend
mid term= don't get married
long term= don't have kids

marriage = stock market. short term pleasure then it will kill ur money slowly

This is most difficult thing to manage (Monthly income) those who are married and having kids.

Followed Buddha Deshana It is the way to save, invest money effectively

StockDJ wrote:avoid girl friends
avoid booz
avoid stock market and sleep peacefully at night and save money
avoid getting married
 overall avoid everything that makes you lose money. 

avoid food  ,dresses 

DANIDU wrote:This is most difficult thing to manage (Monthly income) those who are married and having kids.

three.

GameUP1030 wrote:

DANIDU wrote:This is most difficult thing to manage (Monthly income) those who are married and having kids.

three.

couple time  growth increasing.... after one child stagnant  of growth...two/three child  growth decline... i studied   with examples 75 % success rate ...
exceptional case some families growth start after got one child.. lucky baby..

ddrperera wrote:

GameUP1030 wrote:

DANIDU wrote:This is most difficult thing to manage (Monthly income) those who are married and having kids.

three.

couple time  growth increasing.... after one child stagnant  of growth...two/three child  growth decline... i studied   with examples 75 % success rate ...
exceptional case some families growth start after got one child.. lucky baby..

(rich  or poor  100% not  depend on money..(+attitude+policy+behavior+love+protection)those indirect values...) DD i think your  ideas is really matching here also, I think happiness is better than the growth, i must say growth also important.

GameUP1030 wrote:

ddrperera wrote:

GameUP1030 wrote:

DANIDU wrote:This is most difficult thing to manage (Monthly income) those who are married and having kids.

three.

couple time  growth increasing.... after one child stagnant  of growth...two/three child  growth decline... i studied   with examples 75 % success rate ...
exceptional case some families growth start after got one child.. lucky baby..

(rich  or poor  100% not  depend on money..(+attitude+policy+behavior+love+protection)those indirect values...) DD i think your  ideas is really matching here also, I think happiness is better than the growth, i must say growth also important.

definitely happiness is better than the growth,...growth can't be achieve  in family trouble situations..then happiness is the most important...motivation factor  growth.
like this 

GameUP1030 wrote:

ddrperera wrote:

GameUP1030 wrote:

DANIDU wrote:This is most difficult thing to manage (Monthly income) those who are married and having kids.

three.

couple time  growth increasing.... after one child stagnant  of growth...two/three child  growth decline... i studied   with examples 75 % success rate ...
exceptional case some families growth start after got one child.. lucky baby..

(rich  or poor  100% not  depend on money..(+attitude+policy+behavior+love+protection)those indirect values...) DD i think your  ideas is really matching here also, I think happiness is better than the growth, i must say growth also important.

(Happiness is better than the growth) , ( family growth after got one child) I am agreed with those things, but practically when we look at the most of family nowadays, no happiness because of the money, Father and Mother both working everyday but no better income (may be one is working abroad) . How can I be happy when I don't have money to feed my kids ? Education, clothes ...etc..( I have seen many who can't afford food for the day) They are thinking about today even no time to think the growth/happiness..

some of them earn enough for that month, if they manage and be happy what they earned and maintain low profile family life...it is ok for happiness ( growth on love, attitude, policy, behavior, protection etc....ok)

some earned huge money but the happiness is depend on their mind. 

is money important for peoples happiness ?

DANIDU wrote:

GameUP1030 wrote:

ddrperera wrote:

GameUP1030 wrote:

DANIDU wrote:This is most difficult thing to manage (Monthly income) those who are married and having kids.

three.

couple time  growth increasing.... after one child stagnant  of growth...two/three child  growth decline... i studied   with examples 75 % success rate ...
exceptional case some families growth start after got one child.. lucky baby..

(rich  or poor  100% not  depend on money..(+attitude+policy+behavior+love+protection)those indirect values...) DD i think your  ideas is really matching here also, I think happiness is better than the growth, i must say growth also important.

(Happiness is better than the growth) , ( family growth after got one child) I am agreed with those things, but practically when we look at the most of family nowadays, no happiness because of the money, Father and Mother both working everyday but no better income (may be one is working abroad) . How can I be happy when I don't have money to feed my kids ? Education, clothes ...etc..( I have seen many who can't afford food for the day) They are thinking about today even no time to think the growth/happiness..

some of them earn enough for that month, if they manage and be happy what they earned and maintain low profile family life...it is ok for happiness ( growth on love, attitude, policy, behavior, protection etc....ok)

some earned huge money but the happiness is depend on their mind. 

is money important for peoples happiness ?

දුප්පත්  පවුලක  කෙතරම් ළමයින්  හිටියත් ඒ  අය  සතුටින් කාලය  ගත  කරයි, මන්ද ඔවුන්තුල සංකීර්ණ  අවශ්‍යතා  නොමැති නිසා. ඔවුන්  කිසිදාක  ජනප්‍රිය  පාසල්  සොයා නොයති.ඔවුන්ට  කිසිදා තරු  හෝටල්  සංග්‍රහ  අවශ්‍ය  නැති නිසා , ඔවුන්   කිසිදා සල්ලි සෙවීමට ජීවත් නොවන නිසා ඔවුන්ගේ  ජීවිත  ඉතා  සරලය .මේ  හේතුවෙන්  දුප්පත්  මිනිසුන් කෙතරම්  මුදල්  ප්‍රශ්න තිබුනද සතුටින් සමගියෙන්  ජීවත් වෙති.
එහෙත් මධ්‍යම පාන්තික සහ  ඊට  ඉහල  කොටස් ජනප්‍රිය  පාසල්  සුඛෝපභෝගී  වාහන සැපපහසු  නිවාස  පෞද්ගලික  රෝහල් සහ  සංකර ජීවන  රටාවට  තිබෙන ඇල්ම  හේතුවෙන්  ඔවුන්ගේ  පවුල්  තුල කිසිදා ආදරය සමගිය සතුට  රැදෙන්නේ නැත. මන්ද ඔවුන්  සැමදේම  මුදල් මත  තීරණ  ගැනීමයි. මොවුන් සැමවිටම  සිතන්නේ  මුදල්  යනු සතුට සහ  සමගිය ලෙසය. එම  නිසා මොවුන්හට  සතිටින් සිටිමටනම් අනිවාර්යයෙන්ම  මුදල්  අවශ්‍යවේ.

thanks for the contributions . nis2010, 100% agreed.